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emotion literacy:

Five ways to think favorably about feelings


What is Emotion Literacy?

Simplistically, emotion literacy means the ability to read and comprehend emotions. To be emotion literate is to be well-informed about your emotions. When it comes to emotions, it seems obvious—smiling, laughing, crying—as plain as the nose on your face. How plain behaviors relate to your personal feelings and thinking is not always obvious. Learning how to understand the deeper implications of any given emotion takes determination, time and guidance. Emotion Literacy Advocates creates a learning forum for insight into emotion through language and the arts.


Notice The Difference
Between Feeling and
Behavior


Feelings are non-verbal,
living inside the body
and are often times hidden
from view; behavior
is an outward expression—
not always a clear mirror
for original feelings.

Acknowledge the Connection
Between Past and Present.


Feelings are not bound by time... they will stay
with you forever until they have your attention.
How much of how you feel right now has to do
with what's happening right now?

Remain Curious
About What You See.


Grief can look like "mad;"
fear can look like "sad" ...
identifying the source
of an expression requires
independent thinking,
patient navigation and insight.

Open
The Mental Door
To Feelings.


If you think in terms of:
positive
negative
good
bad
right
wrong
you have closed
the door to perceiving
a feeling and opened
the door to evaluating behavior.

Question Your Behavior.

Does it clearly reflect a feeling
or mask it? Clear reflections
bring you closer to getting
your needs met.

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